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  • Dear Former Me-Is It Okay to Take Up Space?

    Dear Former Me-Is It Okay to Take Up Space?

    Dear Former Me,

    You’ve spent most of your life feeling like you were too much.

    Too loud.

    Too emotional.

    Too dramatic.

    Too sensitive.

    Too ambitious.

    Too expressive.

    At least, that’s what people told you.

    You were told that nobody cared about your feelings.

    That nobody wanted to hear what you had to say.

    That the world didn’t revolve around you.

    And maybe they’re right.

    Maybe the world doesn’t revolve around you.

    But does that mean you’re not allowed to exist in it?

    Does that mean your voice doesn’t matter?

    Does that mean your dreams should be ignored?

    Somewhere along the way, you started shrinking yourself.

    You stopped speaking up.

    You stopped sharing your thoughts.

    You stopped believing that what you had to say was important.

    You learned how to make yourself smaller so other people would feel more comfortable.

    You learned how to dim your light.

    And the saddest part is that after a while, you started doing it to yourself.

    You became your own critic.

    Your own bully.

    Your own limitation.

    But lately, something has been waking up inside of you.

    A desire to create.

    To write.

    To perform.

    To express yourself.

    To be seen.

    And every time you get close, that old voice comes back.

    Who do you think you are?

    Why do you need attention?

    Why can’t you just be normal?

    But maybe wanting to be seen isn’t the same thing as wanting attention.

    Maybe wanting to share your gifts isn’t selfish.

    Maybe wanting a little corner of the world where you can fully be yourself isn’t arrogance.

    Maybe it’s human.

    Because if we’re being honest, you’ve spent enough of your life making yourself smaller.

    You’ve spent enough of your life asking permission.

    You’ve spent enough of your life waiting for someone else to tell you that you’re worthy.

    I think I’m going to do something crazy.

    I think I’m going to do something radical.

    I think I’m going to say yes to myself.

    I think I’m going to stop waiting for permission.

    I think I’m going to stop asking whether I’m allowed to take up space.

    I think I’m going to get back into music.

    And honestly?

    That terrifies me.

    Because what if I fail?

    What if nobody listens?

    What if nobody cares?

    What if they’re right about me?

    But what if they’re wrong?

    What if there’s more waiting for me on the other side of fear?

    What if there’s a version of me I’ve never met because I’ve spent so much time trying to stay small?

    What if, for once, I choose myself?

    Not over my children.

    Not over my responsibilities.

    Not over the people I love.

    But alongside them.

    What if I finally give myself permission to dream again?

    We tell our children every day that they can become anything they want to be.

    We tell them to believe in themselves.

    To use their voice.

    To follow their dreams.

    To never give up.

    So why don’t we offer ourselves the same advice?

    Why do we stop believing?

    Why do we stop trying?

    Maybe believing there’s more out there for you isn’t delusional.

    Maybe it’s hope.

    Maybe it’s faith.

    Or maybe it’s the part of you that remembers who you were before the world convinced you to shrink.

    Maybe this next chapter isn’t about becoming someone new.

    Maybe it’s about becoming who you’ve been all along.

    And maybe it’s finally time to take up space.

    Love,
    Evelyn

  • Unleashing the Creative Goddess Within: How to Awaken Your Inner Artist

    Unleashing the Creative Goddess Within: How to Awaken Your Inner Artist

    Hey everyone, I hope your Valentine’s Day and weekend were filled with love, joy, and meaningful moments! Whether you celebrated with someone special or took time to honor yourself, I hope it was everything you needed. Now, as we dive into this week’s post, let’s talk about something that’s truly close to my heart: embracing your inner artist and awakening the creative goddess within.

    What is Creativity?

    Creativity is often boxed into terms like “art” or “talent,” but the truth is that creativity is a sacred, inherent part of who we are. It’s not confined to one medium or type of expression—it’s a deep force that runs through all of us. At times, many of us feel disconnected from this creative side, convinced it’s something for others, not us. However, the truth is that everyone has the ability to be creative. Whether it’s through writing, art, or even the way we approach life itself, creativity is always present.

    The Power of Creative Expression:

    Creativity is more than just making something beautiful—it’s a powerful way to express our emotions, our deepest thoughts, and our innermost desires. When we express ourselves creatively—whether through painting, writing, or even dancing—we allow our hearts to speak. Creativity helps us heal, grow, and explore parts of ourselves we might otherwise ignore.

    How Creativity and Our Inner Energy Flow Together:

    Creativity isn’t just a product of talent—it’s connected to our energy. When we allow ourselves to feel joy and freedom in our creative expression, we unlock a deeper flow of energy. This isn’t just about creating something physical, but about reconnecting with our true selves.

    Let’s talk briefly about energy. The sacral chakra, or Svadhisthana, governs creativity, emotions, and sensuality. It resides just below the belly button and plays a huge role in unlocking creative flow. When it’s balanced, we feel open to expressing ourselves, freely creating, and embracing our desires. But when it’s blocked, we can feel stuck, disconnected, or hesitant to explore our creativity. In the next few sections, I’ll share ways you can tap into this flow and get in touch with your inner artist.

    How to Reconnect with Your Inner Artist and Balance Your Sacral Chakra:

    1. Start Small, But Start:

    If you’re feeling disconnected from your creativity, the first step is to simply begin. Whether it’s painting, writing, or dancing, allow yourself to express whatever comes naturally. Start small—perhaps with a few minutes of free journaling or sketching. As you allow your creative energy to flow, you’ll start to feel the sacral chakra’s energy awakening within you.

    2. Create Without Judgement:

    The sacral energy thrives when we let go of perfection. Let go of the need for perfection, and simply create. Let go of self-doubt and the fear of being judged. Creativity is not about impressing anyone. It’s about allowing your soul to express itself freely and authentically.

    3. Make Time for Joy and Pleasure:

    Creativity is closely tied to joy, pleasure, and play. Take time to enjoy the things that make you happy, and don’t rush the process. Whether it’s dancing in your living room, cooking a meal, or singing along to your favorite song, engage in activities that nourish your soul and remind you of the beauty of being alive.

    4. Incorporate Creativity into Everyday Life:

    Creativity isn’t just about making art. It’s in everything we do. From how we dress to how we arrange our homes, creativity is woven into every aspect of life. Try changing up your routine or adding a creative touch to your environment. How can you express creativity through your daily actions?

    How to Balance Your Sacral Chakra to Unlock Creativity:

    1. Gentle Movement:

    Try doing some gentle, hip-opening yoga or dance to get your body moving. These movements help release any stagnant energy in the sacral chakra and allow creativity to flow freely.

    2. Self-Expression Through Art:

    Experiment with different forms of creative expression. Start a journal, paint, write poetry, or simply doodle. The act of expressing yourself creatively will activate the energy of the sacral chakra and help unblock any barriers to creativity.

    3. Embrace Sensuality:

    Creativity isn’t just intellectual—it’s also sensual. Spend time engaging with your senses: savor a delicious meal, take a warm bath, enjoy the beauty of nature. Nourishing your senses connects you with your creativity in a profound way.

    My Journey with Creative Blocks: A Story of Vulnerability

    For so long, I struggled with creative blocks, constantly battling feelings of fear, shame, and guilt. Every time I tried something new, whether it was writing, painting, or even dancing, I feared rejection. What if people didn’t like it? What if I wasn’t good enough? These feelings were overwhelming, and they held me back for years.

    But here’s what I’ve learned: being vulnerable with your creativity is one of the most powerful things you can do. The fear of rejection is natural, but it doesn’t define our worth. Creativity is not about perfection—it’s about self-expression and embracing the joy of creating for yourself first, not for anyone else’s approval.

    I had to remind myself that failure isn’t the opposite of success—it’s part of the process. I had to let go of the need for everything to be perfect and simply allow myself to create, no matter how messy or unrefined the process seemed. Over time, I realized that my worth wasn’t tied to the judgment of others—it was tied to my willingness to be unapologetically myself.

    Releasing those blocks has been a huge part of my growth. Today, when I create, I no longer let fear dictate my actions. I create from a place of love, not expectation. And I hope you can do the same.

    Engage and Explore Your Creativity: An Invitation to Action

    Now that we’ve explored how to embrace creativity and balance our sacral chakra, let’s take it a step further. Here are a few activities to awaken your creative energy and embrace the beauty of self-expression:

    1. The Creative Journaling Challenge:

    Grab a journal and write without judgment. Start with a simple prompt:

    • “When was the last time I felt truly creative?”

    • “How can I express myself more freely?”

    Write for at least 10 minutes, allowing your thoughts to flow onto the page. Don’t censor yourself—just let it out.

    2. Create a Vision Board for Your Creative Self:

    Create a vision board that represents your creative aspirations. Use images, words, and colors that inspire you, and place them on your board. This is a visual reminder of your creative potential.

    3. Dance and Move Your Body:

    Put on your favorite music and let your body move freely. Don’t worry about how you look—just feel the music and express yourself. This will help release any creative blocks and encourage your sacral chakra to open.

    4. Try Something New:

    Take a step outside your comfort zone and try a new creative activity. Whether it’s painting, photography, or even taking a dance class, allow yourself to explore. Creativity thrives when you embrace new experiences.

    5. The Color Challenge:

    Wear or surround yourself with orange—the color associated with the sacral chakra. Whether it’s in your clothes, your home décor, or through your art, let this color inspire creativity and joy.

    Final Thoughts:

    The sacral chakra is a powerful force that governs our creativity, emotions, and ability to experience pleasure. By reconnecting with this energy, we can unlock new levels of creativity, self-expression, and personal growth.

    Remember: Creativity isn’t about perfection. It’s about expressing yourself authentically and allowing your soul to shine. Embrace your creativity, honor your inner artist, and let the sacral chakra guide you toward infinite possibilities.